Princess & the paparazzi

It's funny as a little girl, we grow up thinking we want to be a princess - it would be a fairy tale. While some aspects may turn out that way, the ugly face of being royalty rears its ugly face. I feel bad for Kate & think the press & paparazzi should be ashamed of themselves. They did cross a red line & the editors knew it. SHE WAS SUNBATHING WITH HER HUSBAND IN A PRIVATE LOCATION - my goodness! It's not like she was taking her clothes off at a titi bar. And just because a photographer with an extremely high tech long lense camera can capture an intimate moment, doesn't mean they always should.
Yes, I know that people who are of that status, being in the public's eye is just part of the job. However, I think very one is entitled to some privacy. But what's done is done, & I don't think Kate has anything to be ashamed of or apologetic for. You go on with you bad self & let the girls hang loose as you spend the afternoon with your hubby!

Excuses of a cheater...

Ok, so yes...another rant about Kristen Stewart & Rob Pattinson estranged predicament...because like a lot of other folks, for some reason celebrity gossip highly entertaining. Man, I really need to get a life! But anyways, that's a completely different topic - back to the cheating girlfriend & heartbroken boyfriend.
So of course now the BIG topic of discussion is, will he take her back? Should he take her back? What other excuse can we come up with as to why Kristen cheated w/ that director...blah blah blah... I came across this on one of the many gossip-y cheesy websites (and no, that's not an insult) & it made me start to wonder, how many excuses have been made from a cheater? Are there like your go-to lines, like "It was an accident" or "somehow my pants fell down & ended up inside her?" weird...or are there actual legit excuses? Of course, key word here is "excuses". Well, on this particular site, the catchy headline was "Kristen was seduced by Rupert" or whatever his name is...BULLSHIT. Ok, maybe she was "seduced" but, isn't that what happens when flirting begins? It's not like this guy had control over her mind or forced her to do anything...they are both at fault.
Hold the phone! Why is it that Kristen gets all the heat but the MARRIED guy gets a small portion in a headline? He's married! I'm sorry, not that cheating is ok in any situation, but he's married - she isn't....ummm am I the only one who sees this? Anyways, this is all a very cliche situation....young, vulnerable actress, handsome & charming director/producer...and it really doesn't help that she was quoted not long before that she wished something would fuck up in her life or something along those lines. But again, why is it just her getting all the heat? Hey Rupert! You're MARRIED! And I don't want to hear the excuse of "well, we work so much together & a relationship is bound to form" blah, blah, blah...you have a choice. Yes, I agree that temptation may be more concentrated when working on a movie set, w/ the same people for an extended period of time, but that's no different than a normal, workaholic dad who doesn't come home until 9pm & leaves at the butt crack of dawn to get back to the office. Or someone in the military who is on active duty, out of the country...they have wives/husbands & children back home that worry everyday if they're going to come back...and they don't even get to speak to one another on a regular basis. Point being, temptation is everywhere. You choose whether to let in a snake or bash it over the head before it gets to the door. Does anyone remember the saying "don't shit where you eat?"

I don't think Kristen is a slut or whore or whatever else people are saying about her. Now, I will admit I think she is a complete dumbass...I mean, DAMN...you're dating Rob Pattinson!

What it must be like to be wealthy celebrity...ahhh....but back to Earth...shit happens. People make mistakes. Does this mean she gets a free pass? Um no. But I do think people need to back the hell up, especially since the majority of those involved in the gossip ring don't even know her personally & it's not like the first "cheating" scandal to happen in Hollywood, nor the last. I believe that yes, people can make a change in their life & right wrongs & all that...but cheating brings it to a new level. Trust has been broken. Once a cheater, always a cheater. How do you forgive? Considering this is the only option in which the Lord finds a divorce acceptable (no, that doesn't mean He wants you to get a divorce or advocates it), trusting a cheater is a pretty big thing to do. I don't think I could do it.

My ex-husband cheated on me with an employee of his - sent a picture of his penis to her on the night of our one year anniversary - classy huh? I fought for 4 months before I had to leave that house. I went back and forth with the idea of "omg, would God want me to do it this way?" or "a vow wasn't conditional, so I didn't say that I would love you - unless you cheat on me - so is it right for me to give up?". Finally, I figured God would kick me in the ass when it was time to go...and He did. They ended up pregnant...I was even willing to accept that baby as ours & no one would have to know, if that's what he wanted, to save our marriage & that I would have to forgive what he did. That just makes me crazy, but knowing he would still be working with this woman, how do you believe that the affair's over? And on top of that, being the one cheated on sucks....for many reasons...but it's embarassing. No, I didn't get a public apology over national TV from my ex-husband, hell he would still deny he did anything wrong, but never the less - still embarassing.
Looking back, I think I would have felt even more like a fool for staying with him. I also believe everything happens for a reason. As I said in my last rant, there is someone out there that wouldn't cheat on you in the first place. I know that's hard to believe, hell I'm still working on it.

All in all, there really is no good excuse for Kristen's actions so it's pointless to continue to search for one & play the "woe is me" angle. If he choses to take her back, that's his perogative, but she's owned up to it, for the most part, so quite trying to make lame excuses for her. Don't get me wrong, if there was a chance in hell that I would/could ever meet Rob & him fall madly in love with me, I'd say "move over Kristen"!, but that is just about as likely to happen when I wake up w/ blonde hair & big boobs ...which would be never. I'll still be crazy little Asian self.  They were very cute together & it's weird thinking of them being with someone else...maybe that's just the "Twi-hard" in me. But as the Twilight series comes to an end, maybe this to had an expiration date.

Enough of my random ranting - just stupid thoughts - & actually I wouldn't really care if I ever met Rob & him fall madly in love w/ me, it would just be cool to hang - he seems like a cool cat. I think I could hang with Kristen too - but I would have to apologize for drooling & staring off in a stupid daze while secretly hoping there wasn't competition...just saying.

Rare birth of baby dolphin caught on tape!

How beautiful is this?! It is amazing how life is born & for just a moment, the world doesn't seem so ugly...


http://www.grindtv.com/outdoor/blog/34979/incredible+underwater+video+shows+dolphins+birth/

Amazing creatures - rare albino catfish

While this story is pretty neat & exciting, I can't help but wonder why this rare 180 lb catfish could not have been let go & live...it doesn't exactly say it wasn't released, but it doesn't say it was. What an amazing creature God has made...


http://www.grindtv.com/outdoor/blog/35058/extremely+rare+180-pound+albino+catfish+landed+in+spain/

Is it really that shocking Kristen would cheat on Rob?

No. Not in the least. First off, this is Hollywood people! So many temptations, endless opportunities & egos out the window. She is also a very young 22 year old that went from Indie to Big screen almost over night. Nothing excuses her actions or the director's. There is no good apology. It's hard enough being cheated on in the "normal" life, but to have it blasted all over the world, spreading like fire & dealing with it publicly definitely brings on more pressure on how you choose to deal with it.

Being someone who had a husband who did have an affair with another woman, not to mention having a baby while we were still married, this just sucks. I'm all for forgiveness & all that stuff, but something like cheating is almost unforgivable (although there is a difference of forgiving someone who has done wrong & being a doormat who continuously takes them back). How can you ever trust them again? It humiliating enough to be the partner who has been cheated on, can you imagine being outed like that? Now that's taking embarrassment to a whole new level. Yes celebrities make the choice to do the career they do & should expect paparazzi, gossip & being under the microscope (it's just part of the job) but I do think they should be allowed some privacy...especially with things like this. Don't get me wrong...I love celebrity gossip just as much as the next person...but I do feel bad for Rob. Hopefully the good Lord will be with him & mend the damage. As for Kristen, it really doesn't matter how she feels at this point. She made a decision that she knew was wrong, she's an adult & there are consequences to every action. I do hope that the good Lord is with her through this time as well & that Rob forgives her for him to be able to move on. I'm not saying Rob should take Kristen back...actually I would have to say you are F*$%ING RETARD if you do. Once a cheater, always a cheater. People don't change. I'm sorry, but if you love someone & devote yourself to them, straying should not even be an option. I know temptation is out there...we're human...we mess up...but you choose to act. You choose to follow through. And if it was just a "caught up in the moment" crap, then it wouldn't have happened multiple times. It's like playing w/ fire...you don't just "accidentally" fall into some one's bed.
I also think the whole public apology is bullshit...it's PR...if you were really sorry, why would you humiliate the other person even MORE than what you've already done? She's more worried about him forgiving her & blah blah blah so SHE can have a "clear" conscience...so SHE can feel better...this isn't about how SHE feels & it's a selfish move. What's worse is reading that she believes she can win Rob back...umm...cocky much? To me, that is just making him look even more like a helpless fool. What also gets me is that people like Kristen have the whole world offered to them on a plate...why do stupid shit & throw it away (there is soo much more to this but that is for another soap box day)? Maybe cheating on your boyfriend isn't the worse thing, but you were dating ROB! Hello?! And umm, your director is MARRIED w/ kids...did even cross Kristen's mind? Isn't there something wrong w/ a married man making out w/ someone else?
Of course, Rob will many females to choose from - I wish I could be a potential LOL but alas, I am not one of the lucky people born into wealth or status etc. Maybe one day I'll be there...as I dream to be a makeup artist for the stars :)  and I will not one of the millions of people "stalking" Rob (even though it would be so AWESOME to meet him! Or even just see him in person) - just saying
My opinion, Rob kick her to the curb. Move on. There's someone out there who WOULDN'T cheat on you in the first place.


*Unicorns & Glitter*

Everything is fine...

This was definitely not what I expected when I first watched this movie. I'm not sure I really had any expectations. But the scene that really stuck out to me (& still makes me a little teary eyed) is the part where Dinero is walking through the subway (I think that's where the tunnel was) & he stops to give what appears to be a homeless kid money. At first the kid just takes it & it would have been fine if Dinero would have kept on walking...but he didn't.
Now, what he said is true & the kid should've been thankful for the generosity, but based off my opinion of humans I don't think would have said "you know, you could say thank you" to the kid. So the kids gets up & tries to assault Dinero (poor old man - his character) saying that he had seen more money in Dinero's wallet & was going for it, but thankfully he keeps the kid from doing major damage. However, the meds he needs to take were in his coat pocket & of course fell out. Ok - I know it is just a movie & all that, but why would u put something that can determine life or death in a coat pocket without it being zipped? O course, I'm not sure there's a better place for them. Anyways, so of course the punk kid steps on the meds & crushes them & then walks off as Dinero was saying he needed those (slight plea) dropping down to scoop up any remains of powder he could. In the movie he wasn't supposed to be traveling (which he was) & after this incident it only makes sense that something would happen...he was the hospital - almost died.
But enough about the movie - this scene just pisses me off! What a little dirt bag! The sad thing is this type of thing happens everyday. Then, why would you attack an old man? What the hell is wrong with you? Go get a damn job like the rest of us. I feel so bad for Dinero's character - it makes me want to jump in & deal with the kid.
This scene irks me because there are mean & ugly & hateful people out there. You can't trust anyone. That "homeless" guy on the corner could be your average middle class man who makes a decent living, but does this on the "side" for extra income. Or what about the people who use their children out on the streets to get money from strangers. It's just sick.
It would be so great if we actually could help one another & be able to trust the intention of the other person - God tells us to give & care for the needy too. But we put ourselves in potential danger so what do you do?

That was just my rant on shady people.

*Unicorns & Glitter*

Stupid Boy....never hit a woman

This is just awesome! Way to go Shirley!


http://news.softpedia.com/news/Shirley-Manson-of-Garbage-Cuts-Concert-Short-to-Tell-Off-Rude-Fan-272648.shtml


My heart breaks for these women. What is wrong w/ men? How about you keep you penis to yourself & maybe the women wouldn't be protesting about this particular issue.
http://abcnews.go.com/International/wireStory/alarming-assaults-women-egypts-tahrir-16512433

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/47717050/ns/world_news-mideast_n_africa/t/new-egypt-mobs-sexually-assault-women-impunity/