No. Not in the least. First off, this is Hollywood people! So many temptations, endless opportunities & egos out the window. She is also a very young 22 year old that went from Indie to Big screen almost over night. Nothing excuses her actions or the director's. There is no good apology. It's hard enough being cheated on in the "normal" life, but to have it blasted all over the world, spreading like fire & dealing with it publicly definitely brings on more pressure on how you choose to deal with it.
Being someone who had a husband who did have an affair with another woman, not to mention having a baby while we were still married, this just sucks. I'm all for forgiveness & all that stuff, but something like cheating is almost unforgivable (although there is a difference of forgiving someone who has done wrong & being a doormat who continuously takes them back). How can you ever trust them again? It humiliating enough to be the partner who has been cheated on, can you imagine being outed like that? Now that's taking embarrassment to a whole new level. Yes celebrities make the choice to do the career they do & should expect paparazzi, gossip & being under the microscope (it's just part of the job) but I do think they should be allowed some privacy...especially with things like this. Don't get me wrong...I love celebrity gossip just as much as the next person...but I do feel bad for Rob. Hopefully the good Lord will be with him & mend the damage. As for Kristen, it really doesn't matter how she feels at this point. She made a decision that she knew was wrong, she's an adult & there are consequences to every action. I do hope that the good Lord is with her through this time as well & that Rob forgives her for him to be able to move on. I'm not saying Rob should take Kristen back...actually I would have to say you are F*$%ING RETARD if you do. Once a cheater, always a cheater. People don't change. I'm sorry, but if you love someone & devote yourself to them, straying should not even be an option. I know temptation is out there...we're human...we mess up...but you choose to act. You choose to follow through. And if it was just a "caught up in the moment" crap, then it wouldn't have happened multiple times. It's like playing w/ fire...you don't just "accidentally" fall into some one's bed.
I also think the whole public apology is bullshit...it's PR...if you were really sorry, why would you humiliate the other person even MORE than what you've already done? She's more worried about him forgiving her & blah blah blah so SHE can have a "clear" conscience...so SHE can feel better...this isn't about how SHE feels & it's a selfish move. What's worse is reading that she believes she can win Rob back...umm...cocky much? To me, that is just making him look even more like a helpless fool. What also gets me is that people like Kristen have the whole world offered to them on a plate...why do stupid shit & throw it away (there is soo much more to this but that is for another soap box day)? Maybe cheating on your boyfriend isn't the worse thing, but you were dating ROB! Hello?! And umm, your director is MARRIED w/ kids...did even cross Kristen's mind? Isn't there something wrong w/ a married man making out w/ someone else?
Of course, Rob will many females to choose from - I wish I could be a potential LOL but alas, I am not one of the lucky people born into wealth or status etc. Maybe one day I'll be there...as I dream to be a makeup artist for the stars :) and I will not one of the millions of people "stalking" Rob (even though it would be so AWESOME to meet him! Or even just see him in person) - just saying
My opinion, Rob kick her to the curb. Move on. There's someone out there who WOULDN'T cheat on you in the first place.
*Unicorns & Glitter*
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